I'm so ready for our "room-mate" to move out. He's been staying with us since right before Christmas and seriously..I can't take it much longer. He hasn't even looked for a place yet but he's looking for a new truck???!!! WTF?
We told him he could stay with us for a few months until he found a place. He agreed to pay us X amount of money, help out around the house and help out on groceries. He has given us maybe $300 and helped out on groceries two or three times since moving in. He's cooked once and done ZERO dishes. I don't expect him to wash dishes all the time but come on now...if me and Darren are at work all day and all night, he is the only one home from 5-10ish...the dishes he dirties (which are the only ones in the sink) he should wash..right?
I'm so frustrated and I don't know how to talk to him about finding a place. I've tried hinting around to Darren but he obviously isn't getting it. I feel like it's going to come down to me having the talk with him but I don't want it to be like that.
One guy from our work has already asked him if he felt like he was overstaying his welcome and if that's the reason why Darren was always so aggrivated at work or if that's why we were starting to argue more. J seriously freaked out and started...crying...yeah crying! He left work early bc he was so upset..he called me crying asking if I or Darren had said anything to that co-worker. Of course we hadn't, that was just our co-workers opinion.
I feel so bad having to complain about him on my blog but Darren just isn't getting it and I've gotta talk to someone about it. I'm noticing that I'm kinda snappy and very short with J at home and at work. And that actually makes me feel bad. I think it's time for him to atleast start looking ya know...
Anyone have any advice???
ugh...okay vent over!